Around America in 80 Days
Three years ago, we planned a coast-to-coast drive, aiming to sit in the Met for a real performance. Life had a different idea, and we had to cancel. The following year, Adi was weak from the effects of chemotherapy, and could not endure such a task. A year later, still too weak to drive, we flew from Oaxaca to New York, and enjoyed a wonderful Aida.
This year, Adi challenged herself, 'Will I have the stamina for a transcontinental trip?'
We decided to go, with one condition in mind, 'If in doubt, we head back to Oaxaca.'
Back in California after visiting Korea and Israel, we liberated Dino out of storage, and set out on our adventure.
Driving route summary:
California, Utah, Colorado, Illinois, Massachusetts, Maine, New-York (Too early for the Met season), Tennessee, Louisiana, Texas, Oaxaca.
Trip duration: 80 days.
Neat video
Just when I was getting settled and comfortable in Oaxaca, this clip awakened the nomadic urge. It's a good thing I will be going to California in a couple of months.
Life, In Between from J. William Young on Vimeo.
Oaxaca
בית
집
hogar
Definitions:
- A place to rest after a long trip
- A place to learn swimming and drawing
- A place to make salad and bake bread
- A place to meet friends
- A place to plan the next long trip
Use: We are back home, in Oaxaca.
The art of packing light
To Naomi, and others who would like to experience the joy, here are some rules.
Rule number one:Take only what you KNOW you need.
Buddhists and logic purist will be quick to point out that you can never know the future. Trust yourself. You'll know when you know. If in doubt, leave it out. Do not be tempted by "Just in Case" items. Allow for some discomfort. If expecting large climate variations, consider buying locally. For example, instead of carrying a parka on a six-month Asia trip, I bought one (for a couple of bucks) after arriving in the Vietnam Highlands. In the process, I visited the village market, haggled like the locals, and practiced my Vietnamese vocabulary (The numbers, one to twenty). Two weeks later, in the Mekong Delta, I discarded the jacket.
Do consider the consequences of not having an item. I will always carry a poncho on an overnight hike in the Sierra Nevada, while getting wet in Paris, can be romantic.
Rule number two: Plan on layers
Any item of clothing should be part of a plan. Three light layers, topped by a light rainproof shell are sufficient for most Summer travel. At the low end of the temperature range, all your items should be on your body, not in the pack.
Rule number three: Use only synthetic materials.
No cotton. Nylon wicks moisture away from the body and dries quickly. It is easy to wash, and is ready to wear in the morning. Down, the most compact insulation material available, is the only exception to this rule.
Rule number four: Choose the right luggage.
Any container will get overfilled. Therefore, the right size is slightly smaller than what you think you need.
My preferred style is an internal-frame backpack, with straps that can be tucked inside. Wheels are evil.
Results
Using these rules on a trip that included both Southern Spain and Norway, my pack (without the computer) weighed six kilos. Adi needs skin care products, and her pack weighed less than eight kilos. The list of everything I took is shown below. We think that next trip, the list can be slightly reduced.
Upper Layer
T shirt -3
Long T
Long sleeve shirt
Windproof fleece jacket
Light rainproof shell with hood
Lower Layer
Underwear -3
Long john (light)
Swim trunks (can act as short pants)
Long pants (Next trip, maybe revert to two pants)
Head-wear
Sun hat
Warm cap (Important to hair-challenged men)
Footwear
Black running socks -3
Covered-toe sandals. (Usable both in the city and mountain hikes)
Thongs
Toiletry
Silk sleeping sheet
Towel (Synthetic)
Soap and case
Tooth brush and paste
Shaving razor (Not Mach 3) and gel
Deodorant stick
Nail clip
Other
Mosquito repellent
Sun block
Sun glasses
Small assortment of first aid items
Folding knife
Headlamp
Pen and memo pad
Adi's neck pillow
Communications
Reading glasses
10" Netbook computer
Earphones -2, with a splitter jack
Kindle (For the guide books)
Luggage
Passport/money pouch
Small day-pack
Internal-Frame backpack 54x33x25 cm. (Eagle Creek does not make them that small any more)
Adi packed almost the same, with the following exceptions
Only two T-shirts
Black travel dress
Hiking shoes
Slippers
Pack light and be happy.
The New Testament
For some time now, I have been curious about "Rough Guide", the British competitor to Lonely Planet. On this trip, I took along both the Bible (LP) and the New Testament (RG). My observations in one sentence: Lonely Planet has more information, Rough Guide is easier to use. For the winners by category, read below.
Data – LP.
Lonely planet lists more accommodations and restaurants. It also has some additional useful information. In Momostenango we received a private lecture on Mayan Cosmology by an indigenous teacher, who was listed only on LP.
Maps – RG (By a big margin)
RG maps of all scales (Regional, Local, and City) are drawn with more contrast and are easier to read. RG has more local maps, making navigation easier. On city maps, points of interest are labeled (not numbered), and to me, their method of indicating accommodations and restaurants seems more logical.
Organization – RG for drivers, LP for backpackers
RG arranges towns and villages in sequence of travelling along highways. LP clusters them around public transportation hubs. In LP the listing order seems to reflect their level of interest, rather than travel logistics.
Reading Pleasure – RG
The Rough guide style is more subjective and more fun to read.
Overall Winner - Lonely Planet
If I had to choose only one guide, I am a bit disappointed to say that it will continue to be the Bible.
Smiles
"Which country do you like the most?"
"Laos." would have been my quick reply until recently (See note). However after visiting Indonesia, it is harder for me to choose. While analyzing the tie, I realized that both countries occupy the first place because of their people, and that the distinguishing feature of both peoples is their smile. It's an innocent and friendly smile that radiates a genuine joy of seeing me, a visitor, at their home.
The children are the best at it. "Halo Mister" they shout gleefully, regardless of the gender of the recipient. They have an uncanny ability to identify a foreigner speeding on a motorbike. The brave among them stand by the side of the road, arms extended, palms open. Since I am afraid to let go of the handle bar, it became Adi's job to return the expected "High Five" slap. Adults are quieter. They look at your eyes directly, but not intrusively, and smile. If I return the smile with a greeting of "Salamat Pagi, or another Salamat if it is not morning," the smile beams wide. "Pagi" they reply happily. Young women add a charming giggle to their response.
I cannot explain why youngsters and adults alike delight in greeting foreigners. It seems that in both countries the tourist is no longer a novelty to be approached with fear or curiosity, yet still rare enough to provide some fun and diversion. Unfortunately, it may be only a temporary stage in the developmental road. A road that leads either to a high quality, good value, tourism industry as in Thailand, or to a situation where exploiting the tourist is a national objective, as in Vietnam.
In the meantime, while riding my motorbike on a country road, I can still fall in love each time I see a slim young woman with long black hair, walking towards me, a warm smile on her tanned face, and those deep dark eyes, so inviting. My heart beats faster, until she disappears from my side-view mirror.
I think I watched the movie "South Pacific" one time too many.
Note: Oaxaca, which feels almost like a second home, was not allowed to participate in this contest.
Nomads
Standing by the open door, the ground seemed a long way down. Our car, the last one on the train, came to a stop a bit short of the platform. I was in the Jogjakarta train station, less than 100 meters away from the hotel I selected during the ride here. I hesitated for a moment, yet after 36 hours of travel, I was not about to let a vertical drop stand in the way to a long-awaited rest. I tightened the backpack straps, and utilizing my Alpine skills, climbed down and helped Adi to follow. Now, with the rest of the passengers, we waited for the train to move on, so we could cross the tracks into town. This short pause was long enough for the man beside me to start a conversation. I answered the obligatory "Where are you from?" and in response to my counter-question, I learned that he lives in Jakarta and came to visit his parents for the weekend. Without any prompting, he added that the school holiday has begun today, and all the hotels in Jogja, are full.
'Impossible.' I thought as the train left and I eagerly led the way to "our" hotel.
We entered the lobby just in time to see a French couple, which we met on the train, receive the news that "Very sorry, we are full". It was the same answer in our second choice, the higher-priced neighboring hotel. I consulted Lonely Planet again, and entered the backpackers lodging quarter to continue our search. We searched several hostels only to find the same situation. Our paths crossed the French couple again, as they were still looking too. Many other backpackers, all with the same indigo-colored book in hand were frantically searching for the same non-existent vacancies. Often, we had to stand sideways, our backpacks tight against the alley walls to let them shuffle by. In the afternoon sun, the alleys were hot and humid and we started feeling the effects. I lost track of time. Adi was sweating profusely, and looked tired and unfocused. To bolster her spirit, or perhaps mine, I reminded Adi of our past Asian experience. There, we learned that hotels not mentioned in the "Bible" are just as comfortable, yet rarely fully booked. Adi, nodded wearily, and to her credit, did not remind me that back in Seoul, she asked me to make a hotel reservation. The change in strategy did not improve the results. Soon, we learned a new word in Bahsa: Penuh. Posted at the entrance to most hotels and guest houses, it conserved our waning energies by saving the effort of entering the lobby, only to hear "Very sorry, we are full." I cannot clearly recall at what point we were joined by an escort, who offered to take us to a hotel with a vacancy. As was my habit, and despite the situation, I thanked him, relatively graciously, and proceeded to ignore him. He quietly followed as we made our way.
"You don't trust me," he reminded me gently from time to time, "but all the hotels are full"
"Thank you," I replied and hurried on to the next hotel.
Afternoons are short in the tropics, and as evening approached, the need to find shelter became more pressing. Darting across the narrow alleys, made me feel like a caged mouse, and Adi seemed to be in a daze. I turned to our patient escort, and consented to see his hotel. Now our guide, he led us through some even narrower alleys, where, if I was in better condition, I would have enjoyed watching village life unfold, yet now, the scene hardly captured my eye.
The second-floor room at Hotel Harum was worse than my low expectations. Several of Lonely Planet's favorite adjectives such as scuzzy, dingy, and dumpy, here, came alive. I managed to catch Adi's blurry eyes, thanked the proprietor, and returned to the alleys.
It was getting dark. I was getting tired. I could only imagine how Adi was feeling, yet she kept walking without a word of complaint. There was another Lonely Planet listing a bit further down the road. I suggested we go there. All she could do is nod her agreement.
"You don't trust me, so we will go there," said our escort, without a hint of insult in his voice, "but it is also full."
He was right, of course. As we walked the darkening alleys, the inhabitants sitting on door-steps and window sills exchanged pleasantries with our guide. They seemed to occupy another dimension, a relaxed world, where shadows moved in slow motion. One of the shadows offered our guide new information about a vacancy. We walked to this new location only to find a room worse than the one we left behind.
"Why don't you take Harum tonight," suggested our guide, "and tomorrow look for another place. I know a place available tomorrow."
To a caged mouse, any logic makes sense. The option of going to a business-class hotel just a few minutes away, did not penetrate my fading consciousness. We hurried to see tomorrow's accommodations. Adi, usually a quick decision maker, was even quicker than usual. She liked the place, and with hope of a better tomorrow, we hurried back to Harum. It was 6 pm and totally dark when we returned to the hotel. The upstairs room was already taken, and we took the one next to the lobby TV. The windowless room was small, dimly lit and smelled strange. The narrow foam mattress was too soft, and the tiny ventilator struggled unsuccessfully to make a difference. We took a cold shower and collapsed into a coma. Around 11pm we woke up, decided not to go out, and despite the light and sounds coming through the opening above the door, we slept soundly until dawn. This room was promptly named, and will remain in our memories as "The Prison"
In the light of the new day, we left the prison, and with inside information from a friendly travel agent, booked a pleasant room in a hostel highly recommended by Lonely Planet. The hotel has a small pool and waterfall, which provide a cool spot to sit and write blog entries. I am still amazed that to this day, not once, did Adi mention the fact that my reply to her request to make a reservation was something like "Real nomads don't make reservations." One day, with a lot more meditation practice, I hope to achieve her composure.